Thursday, December 27, 2012

Ibu Stress Anak Tercicir?

Benarkah tekanan ketika hamil, akan menyebabkan punca anak alami masalah pembelajaran?

Peubahan hormon yang dialami oleh ibu mengandung boleh memberikan tekanan kepada ibu tersebut. Malah perkara ini telah dibuktikan melalui kajia-kajian ilmiah dan faktor tekanan tersebut antaranya berpunca daripada kuranya sokongan dari ahli keluarga terdekat, terutamanya suami atau ibubapa.

tekanan yang dialami boleh memberi kesan kepada emosi dan sahsiah anak yang dilahirkan, termasuklah anak yang telah dibangku persekolahan. Anak akan mudah merasa bimbang, gelisah, kurang daya tumpuan, panas baran, agresif dan berkemungkinan terlalu aktif.

Oleh itu, ibubapa dan ahli keluarga terdekat perlulah memberi perhatian, memantau dan mengawasi setiap perkembangan anak-anak sepanjang proses tumbesaranya, terutamanya dari segi memahami dan memenuhi keperluan emosinya. sebagaimana yang dilakukan oleh Rasulullah SAW dalam mendidik anak-anaknya, Baginda sangat peka dengan perasaab dan emosi anak2, walaupon ada yang beranggapan ianya perkara yang remeh dalam beberapa perkara. Rasulullah sangat menjiwai hati anak2 kecil yang baru mengenali erti hidup.

Anak-anak tercicir perlu melalui proses pembelajaran dan bukan terus kepada hasil daripada pembelajaran yang dilaluinya. Proses pembelajaran akan membantu anak lebih yakin dengan keupayaan diri, contohnya, mendidik anak untuk makan sendiri, ibu bapa harus membantu anak tersebut menyelaraskan koordinasi antara tangan dan mata, sememangnya anak2 akan makan berterabur atau tumpah beberapa kali, tetapi itulah hakikat proses pembelajaran untuk mereka. Proses ini akan berlarutan sehinggalah dia berjaya menyuap dengan sempurna kedalam mulut.

Dalam mendidik anak2 untuk berdikari, ibubapa harus memberikan tunjuk ajar dan teladan yang baik yang sememangnya akan menjadi ikutan anak2. sebagai contohnya, ibu yang inginkan anaknya sentiasa mengemas barang permainan selepas bermain, ibu bapa haruslah menunjukkan cara mengemasnya dengan baik, lakukan bersama anak2 dan tunjukkan bahawa mengemas adalah satu kemestian tetapi menghiburkan, mengarahkan anak tanpa menunjukkan cara adalah bertentangan sama sekali.

Memberikan pendedahan kepada anak2 untuk melakar, menconteng, melukis dan seumpamanya merupakan suatu pendidikan manipilatif yang sebenarnya memberikan anak2 kemahiran mencapai, mengenggam, mencubit dan melepaskan objek. Kerjasama yang sebaiknya daripada keluarga terdekat dan sahabat handai serta institusi pendidikan yang dihadiri, boleh membantu anak2 yang tercicir melalui kehidupan berdikari mereka walaupun mengambil masa yang agak panjang dan lama berbanding anak2 yang normal. 

Oleh itu, ibubapa haruslah mengawal emosi dan tingkah laku, sejak dari mula mengandungkan anak sehinggalah mereka meniti proses pembesaran dan tumbesaran mereka kerana Ibubapa adalah nadi utama yang mencorak kehidupan anak. jatuh dan bangun mereka. Wallahualam.


Sumber : Bumirestu Creative
Olahan : Umiesaa Ali

Thursday, November 29, 2012

My Breastfeeding Heroes!


So, who is actually my Hero in breastfeeding?? Is my mom.  It's because of my mother, She breastfed my siblings and even until my younger brother entered the kindergarten.  My mother helped normalize breastfeeding to me.  I remember mom will breastfed my brother before she go off for work, and I can see its was a beautiful moments when mom sang a song, they were laughing and cuddling and I know they are enjoying their self.   So, I made up my mind to breastfeed my children. I want to feel that Nikmah that Allah gives and actually is given to all mothers.

I think in order for breastfeeding to become better accepted in our culture in the future, we need to breastfeed in front of our children.  They should see that the purpose of breastfeeding is to provide nourishment to babies and toddlers. I am also nursing in public, my hubby and I support NIP so it makes me easier, thanks lovely darl <3. There are so many ways to NIP, with nursing cover, poncho etc (even sometimes i just used my scarf to cover), and most of all shopping complex now days, they provide a nursing room. Oh ya, second person that I should be thankful is my Ex-Sista in Law, she inspired me a lot! and make me more confident about breastfeeding. Alhamdulillah..



Article below is taken from Breastfeeding-BFF.com::

So… who IS my breastfeeding hero?
…the mom who tries anything to reduce the pain of breastfeeding so she can continue.
…the mom who attempts, even if she fails.
…the mom who suceeds no matter for how long.
…the mom who can’t or isn’t interested in breastfeeding but doesn’t tear down the idea for other people who are.
…the mom who blogs or talks about her breastfeeding experiences with other moms to gain and give support and information.
…the anyone who doesn’t whisper, giggle, blush, look askance at a mother breastfeeding in public (or try to arrest them for public exposure).
…the companies that provide special rooms for nursing moms to pump or feed their child (especially if they are labeled with the global icon for breastfeeding, NOT with a bottle! LOL!).
…the fashion designers who are starting to understand moms would like functional AND fashionable nursingwear for the 6 weeks, 6 months or longer they breastfeed!
…the lactation consultants, nurses, doctors, and breastfeeding specialist who stay well-educated on the topic and dispel common breastfeeding myths.
…the dads, brothers, friends who support moms who breastfeed (whether by keeping other children occupied while she nurses, telling her she’s doing a great job, giving hugs, doing a few chores since breastfeeding takes quantities of time, giving mom some extra time to sleep, making sure she is well-nourished… there are so many ways to support a breastfeeding mama!).
My breastfeeding hero, in fact, just might be YOU! It’s all of us when we come together to positively and purposefully support breastfeeding women!

article taken from Breastfeeding-BFF.com::





Its My Birthday



Im still YOUNG bebeh..(^^,)Y

Thank you all for the beautiful and lovely birthday wishes. It definitely means a lot!!! I’ve enjoyed my life and a lot to be thankful for. A great career, loving husband Muhammad Zhafran, my cheekyboom Dzaidan Bakrizq, and been surrounded by really good friends and family. I am happy with my life, Allhamdulillah Syukur and thank you to everyone that has influence my life in so many ways. Love u all! Muach!


ini GAMBAR2 LAMA.. hehehe 

Two Years of Happiness with Dzaidan Bakrizq

Terasa dah lambat nk update blog ni..hehehe kemalasan melanda..as everyone know we (family)  are not celebrating birthday party, so sayang mama Dzaidan Bakrizq no birthday party for you..but we did a small gathering with friends and chilled out your day and in the same time, I was surprised with cuppy cakes from hubby (my birthday is on 29th Nov, so alang2 sambut sama2 la..) hehehe..Thanks syg..


Ni Orang2 tua yang seronok lebih..hahahaha..Thanks guys..



On that day - 4 November 2010 - hidup Mama completely berubah.  In a way, it was the day I grew up to become a better person.  It was the day I understood the meaning of true love and sacrifice everything for someone that I really love and care about- to give my all and love unconditionally tanpa mengharapkan sebarang balasan.  It was the day I became a mother to a little angel.  Alhamdulillah, syukur sangat sangat..

*tetiba rasa syahdu & bergenang air mata plak nih*.

7 days old - after cukur kepala

As a FTWM, EPM dan sebagainya..Alhamdulillah..times flies, and he turns two now..Im so proud to become his mother, I always knew I wanted to breastfed DB as long as I can and I knew it will be challenging as FTWM to exclusively breastfed. But to be completely honest, I never imagined I’d still be nursing for 2 and a month year old cheeky boy. Alhamdulillah. I really enjoyed it with all the challenges made me so grateful and more independence in so many ways.

   4.11.12 - 8.15am : OTW to baby sitter house 
(2years ago, at that time, i reached KJMC drove my car alone due to bleeding - 
and he was born at 8.01 p.m.)


"Semoga menjadi hamba Allah yang sempurna, dan anak yang soleh ye sayang, Mama and Ayah love u so much!"

Friday, June 29, 2012

Breastfeeding and Me

Alhamdulillah..masih breasfeed Bakrizq hingga ke hari ini..Bakrizq dah setahun tujuh bulan..sikit jer lagi..InsyaAllah...my breastfeeding journey will be shared soon..sharing is caring..hehe XD


haha..gamba ni kat dusun durian..asal boley jer kan..masa ni dia lom bole jalan lagi..


 dah tidur kekenyangan..hehehee


 Alhamdulillah..masuk bulan July 2012 ni, Dzaidan Bakrizq dah setahun 8 bulan, n masih dikurniakan rezeki untuk dia terus menyusu dengan mama..cuddle2 ngn mama..InsyaAllah mama akan berusaha!! doakan mama k syg..
Oh ye, terima kasih xterhingga buat suami Muhammad Zhafran yang terlalu banyak membantu susah senang menjaga si Askar Kecik nih..hehe..

Nursing In Public (NIP) - wedding friend at Dewan Sri Endon, Putra Jaya. 

Shaklee and Me

Dengan rasminya saya telah menjadi ahli Shaklee yang sah ;P
Tqvm kakak2 yang introduced Shaklee kat saya..

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banyak nak share pasal Shaklee ni..XD